What is the outcome on our children?
Over the past few weeks headlines in the newspapers and lead
stories on radio/television have been preoccupied with the alleged bad
behaviour of politicians.
From Pamela Wallin in the Ontario Senate to Rob Ford Mayor
of Toronto all you see and hear from the media is their alleged breach of
public trust.
The front page of the Saturday Toronto Star November 2, 2013 is a good example. Immediately below the Star’s name banner in
large bold black lettering is ‘The mayor headed down and visited the security
desk alone with a half-empty bottle of brandy’.
The next story under this
and again in bold black lettering is ‘Fraud, breach of trust alleged in Wallin
case’.
Does the public have a right to know when their elected
officials violate the trust bestowed on them?
Of course we do!
Do politician have the right to due legal process - the
assumption of innocence until they are found guilty at the end of a court
process?
Of course they do!
The challenge and tension lays in the balance. More importantly, as a parent and
grandparent, I want to know who is being held accountable for the affect this
constant barrage of socially demoralizing information is having on our
children!
To assume they are not being affected is to say they are not
active players is the social fabric and as a society our preoccupation with
juvenile justice says they are.
How can we as parents teach social accountability in the face
of societies unending addiction to believing the worst of our politicians
before they have been provided due legal process?
Do not misunderstand me.
We need to know that Wallin and Ford are under investigation. We
should know for what and beyond this as citizens they have the same rights as you and I. They have the right to a private legal process. To inflict trial by media on them is just another form of vigilantly justice in my opinion.
What sparked this post was two conversations that I
overheard today.
The first conversation was a heated discussion between what
I can only assume was a teenage boy and his parents. The youth was challenging their authority to
tell him drugs were wrong and would ruin his life when the mayor of Toronto
uses and is successful.
The second conversation was an older couple who were
discussing how they could not trust the Trick-or-Treaters who were collecting
for UNICEF. They were of the opinion
that the children would be “skimming a take off the top” and yes they
referenced the senator.
In the first conversation the youth aligned
himself with reported bad behaviour of a politician to dismiss his parents
worry and in the second all socially conscious children who collected for
UNICEF were deemed to be deviant and the proof was reported bad behaviour of a
politician.
On the first page of the Toronto Star was a third story that of Lonnie Bissonnette. It was above the banner and lost in
the noise of the other two stories.
Bissonnette is a young man paralyzed in a parachute jump who refused to
give up on his dream, his future and parachuted in his wheelchair with the support of
friends. This life affirming story of
courage and youth triumph was buried beyond the first section of the paper, unlike the other two which took up many pages.
I want to leave you with a metaphor. Is societies addiction
with gossip about our politicians flooding out the positive social values that we want
our children to learn and emulate as adults, just as the Saugeen River flooded
out the children playground yesterday.
What is the outcome for our children? Who is considering the consequence on our
children and society at large?
Grandma Snyder
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