Friday, 10 July 2015

Carla's Rice Salad


One of great things about visiting with family that you do not see every day is getting to try new and wonderful recipes.  Carla’s rice salad is just one of many that you will see over the next few weeks.  This salad is both a summer and winter hit and keeps well in the refrigerator.

Ingredients:
  • 4 cups cooked rice
  •  1 cup chopped celery
  •  1/4 cup chopped green onions
  • 1 cup chopped sweet peppers


Dressing
  • 1/2 cup salad oil
  • 3 tablespoons vinegar
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • 1/2 teaspoons curry powder
  • 1 tablespoon soy sauce
  • 1/2  tablespoon sugar


Directions:
  1. Cook rice and drain
  2. While rice is cook chop vegetables and set aside
  3. In sauce pan add all ingredients of the dressing and simmer for 3 minutes stirring constantly, remove from heat.
  4. In a large bowl combine the rice and vegetables 
  5. Stir in dressing
  6. Serve


This salad is great served both hot or cold and is a hit at potluck dinners

From our table to yours

Grandma Snyder

©2013-2015 twosnydergirls


Tuesday, 7 July 2015

10 Things to Tell Your (Grand)children in June


We are a treasure trove of knowledge and it is important to share the knowledge we have of our parents, the families we come from and ourselves.

Father’s Day occurs in June:


1)      Describe to each of your (grand)children what you remember about their birth and how you felt to become their (grand)father. (if in the role of father)

Yes this is the same question from May only this times it applies to fathers.  It is important to remember that each of us will have a unique perspective of all life events and it is key to the family story that all perspectives are provided.

 2) Talk to them about what you remember about your father and how you celebrated Father’s Day with him.

 3) Remember your Grandfather to your (grand)children.  What is your fondest memory of him?

Grandpa John loved to go for early morning drives and my fondest memories of these times.

4) Talk to your (grand)children about the type of (grand)father you are striving to be. (if in the role of a father) 

5) Talk about your greatest struggle as a man and how you overcame it or are working to over come.


June 27th is the American backyard camping: 



As a child of the 50's summers were filled with backyard camping.  Sticks, rope, Mom's sheets and blankets made amazing tents.  Then there was the trip to the local gas station for a bag of penny candy which by the next day was a sticky mess and waking up to the smell of damp candy and sheets brings back fond memories even 60 years later.
6) Share your memories of backyard camping? Create new memories by planning a staycation with your (grand)children plan a backyard camping trip. 


June also brings the end of the school year:


7) What do you remember of those last days of school?  


Mine are never being sure if the dreaded report card would say pass or fail, the end of school was a mix of dread and anticipation.  
8) Did you go on any end of school trips, (grand)children will enjoy these stories and these destinations can become summer destinations for your family.

9) What did you do with your school notebooks and reports?  If you had a traditional way to dispose of these personal possessions describe these and how you feel about it today.  If you have any of your school books take them out and share them.


Recipe:


10) When you think of the month of June is there a favourite food that comes to mind?  Write the recipe out and make it with your (grand)children.


Strawberries clean and fresh sprinkled with white sugar and swimming in fresh cream bring back memories of June, and my Grandmother.  
 Grandma Snyder

© 2013-2015 twosnydergirls

Monday, 6 July 2015

Mindfulness - Say What You Do


What do you mean?!

My children know what I think because I tell them!

That is not true - actions speak louder than words -  children will make sense of absurdities between what we say and what we do.

What does the teenager do with being lectured on drinking and driving his dad’s car then two weeks later watches his dad drive in the driveway coming home from the bar?
Might he conclude that what his father was saying was you can drink and drive your own car not somebody else’s. 

And
When parents are silent on issues of importance children will look to parental behaviours and from this create a parental position.

Be mindful of what you are saying and not saying to the children in your life.


Is there congruency between what you say and what you do?

Talk with your children!




Grandma Snyder

©2013-2015 twosnydergirls

Sunday, 5 July 2015

My Grace is Sufficient For You


When life is flowing as we desire, when we appear to be in control, all too often there is little thought given to how God’s grace is playing out in our lives.

Yes we offer quick prayers “Thank you Lord for life’s blessings” or words similar too this, however what are the specific blessings we are referring to?  Are we just offering platitudes since really we have done all the work.

We were playing cards with friends when the call came in that Dad was in hospital and five days later we were planning his funeral.  Life that been measured in days and weeks now was reduced to moments.  

We moved through those moments with the pray “Lord Jesus Christ Holy Son of God of Mercy on me…” as a constant refrain because we could nothing else, we had no words.

We made it through that week because God’s grace was sufficient.  During a week when everything was out of control a week we rode a tidal wave of grief, anger and pain God’s power, God’s unconditional love for us was made perfect by our weakness, we felt it because we could feel nothing else, we understood it and knew it to be true.

We prayed Thank you Lord for standing with us, for standing witness to our grief, for holding us from falling and for setting our feet back on solid ground when we healed.

Resilience is knowing that thou we are weak and life is out of our control we will make it through because of God’s grace. 


Grandma Snyder


©2013-2015 twosnydergirls

Caramel Bread Pudding

The smell of hot caramel sauce fills the house on a cold wet May Saturday.  Supper tonight is Caramel Bread Pudding a recipe found in Gr...